Last night we wrapped up Destiny Sports camp here at the church. I had the privilege of serving as one of the Assistant Disc Golf Coaches. It was an amazing week as we had over 600 kids here Tuesday-Thursday and dozens and dozens of kids prayed to receive Jesus as Savior. It was a beautiful sight to see the campus filled with hundreds of volunteers (youth and adult) and serving these kids. We even had a little baptism service last night on the stage where 12 kids got baptized.
One of our core values at StoneBridge is investing in the next generation. It just filled my tank so much this week getting to spend time with 17 1st-6th graders in my disc golf group. We laughed together, had a few tear-filled moments, and had some really special conversations. They were so excited as I took a picture of several of them giving me their best disc-golf throw.
Jesus said, '"Let the children alone, don't prevent them from coming to me. God's kingdom is made up of people like these." (Matthew 19:14) This week we got to see a lot of little kids genuinely come to Jesus. As they were shown love, cared for, hugged, guided, helped and valued, they discovered a Savior who still welcomes them into His lap. Many of these kids have come from broken homes but this week they found a heavenly Father who truly cares for them and will always be faithful.
Praise God for His wonderful works! The newspapers may paint a dismal picture, but God is still on His throne, He is still changing lives through the reality of the Gospel, and hope marches on through the darkest of nights!
in Christ,
Brian
Friday, June 28, 2013
Wednesday, June 26, 2013
Performance or Relationship?
Last week Jane and I drove to North Carolina for a family vacation. We were both born and raised in the "Tar Heel State." We intended to visit family and many dear friends from high school and college days. One of the things I wanted to do was to visit my voice teacher from college. He was in poor health and I wanted to express my gratitude to him for all that he taught me. Just before we were getting ready to leave I learned via Facebook that he had passed away. I was deeply saddened. We planned to be in North Carolina on Wednesday; however, the funeral was scheduled for Tuesday. So we changed our plans, drove hard and arrived just eight minutes before the memorial service was scheduled to begin.
Many former voice students were there, as well as many of my professors from the school of music.
One of those professors was my choral music mentor, Dr. Richard Cox. Dr. Cox was someone I held in very high regard. He has international credentials, received his Doctorate from the Paris Conservatory of Musicis, is fluent in several foreign languages and is an author. When I saw him, I still had thoughts of my exit exams prior to getting my Master's degree. He was head of my committee. Though I "passed" I felt that there was weakness in some of my responses. I still felt a little disappointed in myself when I saw him. After a very moving and beautiful service, I made a bee line for Dr. Cox.
I introduced myself again and when he spoke, he changed my perspective very quickly. He said, "Joe, please don't call me Dr. Cox, I have asked you on several occasions to call me Richard. Today is a difficult day and we all need the comfort of dear friends from across the years." He then began to weep and we embraced. I was deeply touched by this tender moment and by how he made himself vulnerable.
In my self conscious state, I had been concerned with performance and measuring up, while he was focussed on life, love and friendship. He is still my mentor, still sharing his wisdom, and in that moment I experienced an emotional healing. God used Richard to heal a wound that I had carried for years.
So is it about performance or relationship? Jesus spoke to that when Mary sat at Jesus' feet and completely forgot about kitchen duty. When her sister Martha, complained to Jesus, here is how he answered her.
“Martha, Martha,” the Lord answered, “you are worried and upset about many things, but few things are needed—or indeed only one. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.” Luke 10:41-43
I, like Martha, was worried about many things, but my Prof.......Richard had chosen the better thing, to focus on love.
Joe
Many former voice students were there, as well as many of my professors from the school of music.
One of those professors was my choral music mentor, Dr. Richard Cox. Dr. Cox was someone I held in very high regard. He has international credentials, received his Doctorate from the Paris Conservatory of Musicis, is fluent in several foreign languages and is an author. When I saw him, I still had thoughts of my exit exams prior to getting my Master's degree. He was head of my committee. Though I "passed" I felt that there was weakness in some of my responses. I still felt a little disappointed in myself when I saw him. After a very moving and beautiful service, I made a bee line for Dr. Cox.
I introduced myself again and when he spoke, he changed my perspective very quickly. He said, "Joe, please don't call me Dr. Cox, I have asked you on several occasions to call me Richard. Today is a difficult day and we all need the comfort of dear friends from across the years." He then began to weep and we embraced. I was deeply touched by this tender moment and by how he made himself vulnerable.
In my self conscious state, I had been concerned with performance and measuring up, while he was focussed on life, love and friendship. He is still my mentor, still sharing his wisdom, and in that moment I experienced an emotional healing. God used Richard to heal a wound that I had carried for years.
So is it about performance or relationship? Jesus spoke to that when Mary sat at Jesus' feet and completely forgot about kitchen duty. When her sister Martha, complained to Jesus, here is how he answered her.
“Martha, Martha,” the Lord answered, “you are worried and upset about many things, but few things are needed—or indeed only one. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.” Luke 10:41-43
I, like Martha, was worried about many things, but my Prof.......Richard had chosen the better thing, to focus on love.
Joe
Tuesday, June 25, 2013
I Will Not Be Quiet.
I love this little story at the end of Mark 10:
46 Then they came to Jericho. As Jesus and his disciples, together with a large crowd, were leaving the city, a blind man, Bartimaeus (that is, the Son of Timaeus), was sitting by the roadside begging. 47 When he heard that it was Jesus of Nazareth, he began to shout, "Jesus, Son of David, have mercy on me!" 48 Many rebuked him and told him to be quiet, but he shouted all the more, "Son of David, have mercy on me!"
49 Jesus stopped and said, "Call him." So they called to the blind man, "Cheer up! On your feet! He's calling you." 50 Throwing his cloak aside, he jumped to his feet and came to Jesus. 51 "What do you want me to do for you?" Jesus asked him. The blind man said, "Rabbi, I want to see." 52 "Go," said Jesus, "your faith has healed you." Immediately he received his sight and followed Jesus along the road.
Here's a thought. What if Bartimaeus would have stopped after the first 'Jesus, Son of David, have mercy on me!'. I'm sure it was tempting because the crowd around him 'rebuked him and told him to be quiet.' They basically tried to discourage him, to not bother Jesus and that it was no use. What if he would have listened to them? He would have remained blind.
But......he didn't listen. It says that 'he shouted all the more.' Through his passion and persistence and refusal to be quiet, he got the attention of Jesus. His voice was heard, his eyes were opened and his life was forever changed.
I think about how many times in my life I listen to the 'nay-sayers' and give up too easily. So often I lack the perseverance of Bartimaeus. So many times I allow the voice of the crowd to influence me more than that still small voice of God's Spirit beckoning me to step out in faith. What is God putting on your heart today? Are you and I willing to let the discouraging and critical words of the crowd bounce right off of us? Will we be resilient in our pursuit of Jesus and 'shout all the more' as we chase after Him today?
in Christ,
Brian
46 Then they came to Jericho. As Jesus and his disciples, together with a large crowd, were leaving the city, a blind man, Bartimaeus (that is, the Son of Timaeus), was sitting by the roadside begging. 47 When he heard that it was Jesus of Nazareth, he began to shout, "Jesus, Son of David, have mercy on me!" 48 Many rebuked him and told him to be quiet, but he shouted all the more, "Son of David, have mercy on me!"
49 Jesus stopped and said, "Call him." So they called to the blind man, "Cheer up! On your feet! He's calling you." 50 Throwing his cloak aside, he jumped to his feet and came to Jesus. 51 "What do you want me to do for you?" Jesus asked him. The blind man said, "Rabbi, I want to see." 52 "Go," said Jesus, "your faith has healed you." Immediately he received his sight and followed Jesus along the road.
Here's a thought. What if Bartimaeus would have stopped after the first 'Jesus, Son of David, have mercy on me!'. I'm sure it was tempting because the crowd around him 'rebuked him and told him to be quiet.' They basically tried to discourage him, to not bother Jesus and that it was no use. What if he would have listened to them? He would have remained blind.
But......he didn't listen. It says that 'he shouted all the more.' Through his passion and persistence and refusal to be quiet, he got the attention of Jesus. His voice was heard, his eyes were opened and his life was forever changed.
I think about how many times in my life I listen to the 'nay-sayers' and give up too easily. So often I lack the perseverance of Bartimaeus. So many times I allow the voice of the crowd to influence me more than that still small voice of God's Spirit beckoning me to step out in faith. What is God putting on your heart today? Are you and I willing to let the discouraging and critical words of the crowd bounce right off of us? Will we be resilient in our pursuit of Jesus and 'shout all the more' as we chase after Him today?
in Christ,
Brian
Monday, June 24, 2013
Not for a Moment (Devotion by Baylee Rubich).
(Thankful for an amazing worship gathering Sunday morning at StoneBridge. As promised here is the devotion written by Baylee on the song she shared "Not For a Moment."
Life is overwhelming. Whether we’re having work problems, family issues, coping with a loss, or struggling with school, a lot of times it can seem unbearable and very stressful. During these periods it feels like God has abandoned us because it’s hard to imagine that the God of the universe, the one who cares so much for us is letting this happen.
“You were reaching through the storm,
walking on the water, even when I could not see.
In the middle of it all,
When I thought you were a thousand miles away,
Not for a moment did you forsake me”
It’s second nature to say “Don’t worry, God has a plan. Just put all your trust in him.” to someone who is hurting, but can be very difficult to believe it for ourselves. It’s much easier to say this when our family is healthy and our jobs are secure, but when tragedy strikes it’s so hard to trust that God is in control. God has told us throughout the Bible that He is always there. Whether we can see/feel/hear Him, He’s still right next to us.
Deuteronomy 31:6 Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the LORD your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you."
“Not For A Moment” by Meredith Andrews says it perfectly:
“You were singing in the dark,
whispering your promise,
even when I could not hear.”
No matter what stress we are under, Christ understands because He endured all the same things when He was here. He knows what it’s like to have the world against you and everything around you is caving in. But, God is faithful. He knows what you can handle and won’t ever push you past your limit. Even when we are tempted, God gives us a way out: Him. When we are at the end of our rope we need to let go and let God take control.
1 Corinthians 10:13 No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it
Life is overwhelming. Whether we’re having work problems, family issues, coping with a loss, or struggling with school, a lot of times it can seem unbearable and very stressful. During these periods it feels like God has abandoned us because it’s hard to imagine that the God of the universe, the one who cares so much for us is letting this happen.
“You were reaching through the storm,
walking on the water, even when I could not see.
In the middle of it all,
When I thought you were a thousand miles away,
Not for a moment did you forsake me”
It’s second nature to say “Don’t worry, God has a plan. Just put all your trust in him.” to someone who is hurting, but can be very difficult to believe it for ourselves. It’s much easier to say this when our family is healthy and our jobs are secure, but when tragedy strikes it’s so hard to trust that God is in control. God has told us throughout the Bible that He is always there. Whether we can see/feel/hear Him, He’s still right next to us.
Deuteronomy 31:6 Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the LORD your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you."
“Not For A Moment” by Meredith Andrews says it perfectly:
“You were singing in the dark,
whispering your promise,
even when I could not hear.”
No matter what stress we are under, Christ understands because He endured all the same things when He was here. He knows what it’s like to have the world against you and everything around you is caving in. But, God is faithful. He knows what you can handle and won’t ever push you past your limit. Even when we are tempted, God gives us a way out: Him. When we are at the end of our rope we need to let go and let God take control.
1 Corinthians 10:13 No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it
Friday, June 21, 2013
The One Thing.
Do you ever feel unmotivated? Do you ever struggle to get out of bed in the morning? Usually when I feel this way it's because there is no compelling force or vision inside my soul that is energizing movement. When I haven't set my mind on something captivating, it wanders all over the place and, as a result, I meander ineffectively through my day.
Here are a couple of passionate guys from the Bible, Paul and David, that were lazer-focused in their motivation and mindset:
'13 No, dear brothers and sisters, I am still not all I should be, but I am focusing all my energies on this one thing: Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead, 14 I strain to reach the end of the race and receive the prize for which God, through Christ Jesus, is calling us up to heaven.' - Paul
'4 One thing I ask of the LORD, this is what I seek: that I may dwell in the house of the LORD all the days of my life, to gaze upon the beauty of the LORD and to seek him in his temple.' - David
Both of them had 'one thing' that dominated their minds, thus energizing them in all they did. They both clearly wanted more and more of God's presence. It wasn't enough to just reflect on the past but they craved a fresh encounter, today! Right before this statement, Paul talks about how the greatest ambition in life is to 'know Jesus' and the power of His resurrection and His suffering.
So seek God today. Read His Word. Cry out to Him in prayer. Hear the gospel today through podcasts, tweets, and books. Come together with other believers and share what the Lord is doing and encourage one another. Look for Him expectantly in creation, in conversations. Jesus said if we seek we will find. If we ask we will receive. If we knock the door will be opened to us. So let's grab a hold of this one dominating thought and allow it to drive out all the other inferior thoughts. Let's allow God's vision and motivation to bring clarity and energy and motivation to our wandering path today.
in Christ,
Brian
Here are a couple of passionate guys from the Bible, Paul and David, that were lazer-focused in their motivation and mindset:
'13 No, dear brothers and sisters, I am still not all I should be, but I am focusing all my energies on this one thing: Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead, 14 I strain to reach the end of the race and receive the prize for which God, through Christ Jesus, is calling us up to heaven.' - Paul
'4 One thing I ask of the LORD, this is what I seek: that I may dwell in the house of the LORD all the days of my life, to gaze upon the beauty of the LORD and to seek him in his temple.' - David
Both of them had 'one thing' that dominated their minds, thus energizing them in all they did. They both clearly wanted more and more of God's presence. It wasn't enough to just reflect on the past but they craved a fresh encounter, today! Right before this statement, Paul talks about how the greatest ambition in life is to 'know Jesus' and the power of His resurrection and His suffering.
So seek God today. Read His Word. Cry out to Him in prayer. Hear the gospel today through podcasts, tweets, and books. Come together with other believers and share what the Lord is doing and encourage one another. Look for Him expectantly in creation, in conversations. Jesus said if we seek we will find. If we ask we will receive. If we knock the door will be opened to us. So let's grab a hold of this one dominating thought and allow it to drive out all the other inferior thoughts. Let's allow God's vision and motivation to bring clarity and energy and motivation to our wandering path today.
in Christ,
Brian
Thursday, June 20, 2013
Count Your Blessings.
Well, I am back from Zambia and it almost feels a bit more odd being here than it did being in Lusaka. It’s strange to realize that I won’t get to see my ten sweet boys every day. We are so blessed over here, so fortunate. As I’m getting used to being back home I’m seeing all these difference between our culture and that of the orphans I was with just a few days ago.
I came home to a small clean apartment that I share with no one but my little furry kitties.
I sent one of my boys home to a 2 room house that he shares with 12 family members.
I am not looking forward to all the laundry I have to do now that most of my clothes are dirty.
My boys wore the same clothes all week.
I have food that went bad in the fridge because I never got around to using it.
My boys often skip meals because there just isn't any food.
And so I am reminded of the chorus of a certain hymn.
Count your blessings, name them one by one
Count your blessings, see what God hath done
Count your blessings, name them one by one
count your many blessings, see what God hath done.
Blessed
Hailey
I came home to a small clean apartment that I share with no one but my little furry kitties.
I sent one of my boys home to a 2 room house that he shares with 12 family members.
I am not looking forward to all the laundry I have to do now that most of my clothes are dirty.
My boys wore the same clothes all week.
I have food that went bad in the fridge because I never got around to using it.
My boys often skip meals because there just isn't any food.
And so I am reminded of the chorus of a certain hymn.
Count your blessings, name them one by one
Count your blessings, see what God hath done
Count your blessings, name them one by one
count your many blessings, see what God hath done.
Blessed
Hailey
Wednesday, June 19, 2013
If You Dance With The Devil...
You're gonna get burned.
Matt Papa writes, "Jesus commands us to love Him chiefly, not because He is arrogant or needy, but because He doesn't want us to love things which will betray us."
When we rush to meet our needs outside of God's provision, we sin. Unfortunately we usually see only the temporary pleasures and fail to see the long term consequences.
God's love for us is one of provision and protection. He wants us to enjoy life and its pleasures, but in a way that builds up rather than tearing down.
Jane and I are on vacation. It's been a good year, but both of us "needed" a break. We've enjoyed all the pleasures of life in the way God designed. It has reenergized both of us.
When we enjoy all the pleasures of life in the way the evil one desires, we are left "wasted."
I think of the prodigal son who had a rip roaring time, but ended up alone and sharing food in a pigs trough. Like the prodigal, we have a Father who is seeking to give us a ring and a robe, welcoming us back with the fullness of His love.
Let's learn to love things that are good, right and pure and the One from whom all good things come.
Philippians 4:8
Finally, brethren, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is of good repute, if there is any excellence and if anything worthy of praise, dwell on these things.
James 1:17
Every good thing given and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variation or shifting shadow.
On the road,
Joe
Matt Papa writes, "Jesus commands us to love Him chiefly, not because He is arrogant or needy, but because He doesn't want us to love things which will betray us."
When we rush to meet our needs outside of God's provision, we sin. Unfortunately we usually see only the temporary pleasures and fail to see the long term consequences.
God's love for us is one of provision and protection. He wants us to enjoy life and its pleasures, but in a way that builds up rather than tearing down.
Jane and I are on vacation. It's been a good year, but both of us "needed" a break. We've enjoyed all the pleasures of life in the way God designed. It has reenergized both of us.
When we enjoy all the pleasures of life in the way the evil one desires, we are left "wasted."
I think of the prodigal son who had a rip roaring time, but ended up alone and sharing food in a pigs trough. Like the prodigal, we have a Father who is seeking to give us a ring and a robe, welcoming us back with the fullness of His love.
Let's learn to love things that are good, right and pure and the One from whom all good things come.
Philippians 4:8
Finally, brethren, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is of good repute, if there is any excellence and if anything worthy of praise, dwell on these things.
James 1:17
Every good thing given and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variation or shifting shadow.
On the road,
Joe
Tuesday, June 18, 2013
Lesson from a Furry Friend.
Last Friday was a living nightmare for me. My wife and kids have been in Georgia this past week with family while I have been working and staying at the house. One of my responsibilities while I've been home has been to take care of some of our animals including the cat, fish and the hamster. On Thursday night I went upstairs to check on Cupcake, the hamster, gave her some treats, let her run around in her little hamster ball, and then I put her up for the night.
Friday afternoon I went upstairs, looked at the hamster cage, and horror swept over me. I had left one of the hamster cage doors open....Yikes! Sure enough, little Cupcake was off on an adventure somewhere in our home. Panic struck as I envisioned sharing with my 9 year old daughter (who absolutely loves her little hamster) that Daddy lost Cupcake. To add insult to injury, the next day was my daughter's birthday and I had sent her a package with a 'dancing hamster' birthday card. How awful! She gets the birthday card celebrating her little furry friend only to then get a call from her Dad, on her birthday, informing her that he has lost her pet.
So the search began. With flashlight in hand, I covered every square inch of our house on the ultimate game of hide-and-go seek. Let's be honest, the hamster has the advantage here. There are millions of obscure places this little furry friend can hide and simply go to sleep and not make a peep. All of my hours of searching on Friday were fruitless. I was devastated. I even had our animal-rescuer friend come over and look as well....nothing. Saturday morning rolls around and I start to feel hopeless. Right about then my wife calls and tells me not to give up and keep looking. Her words gave me some fresh inspiration.
So I go ... toy by toy ...stuffed animal by stuffed animal ... all the way through my daughter's close. Nothing. I finally work my way to Joshua's closet, piece by piece, all the way to the very back. I look down and see a glimmer of hope. On the floor was a small pile of shredded paper and a neat little pile of food. I could sense that I was on the trail now. Right next to this little make-shift hamster outpost was a really huge canvas container packed full of stuffed animals. So I began taking each animal out one by one, and finally, at the very bottom of the stack was a furry little animal that was scurrying around....CUPCAKE! I have never been so happy to see a rodent in my entire life. I could have kissed this little thing.
This little episode in my life made me think about Jesus' mission that He declares in Luke 19:10. He looks at the crowds, right after Zacheus the tax-collecter becomes a follower, and declares, 'for the Son of Man came to seek and save that which was lost.' As His people, we are to have the same mission and heart for the lost. I obsessed and made it a top priority to seek and save this little hamster. How much more are we to obsess and make it a top priority to seek out the salvation of our lost friends, family and neighbors. How much more should we be praying for them, asking God to save them, inviting them to church, and looking for ways to love them and point them towards their heavenly Father.
God, may you bring someone closer towards home through us today!
in Christ,
Brian
Friday afternoon I went upstairs, looked at the hamster cage, and horror swept over me. I had left one of the hamster cage doors open....Yikes! Sure enough, little Cupcake was off on an adventure somewhere in our home. Panic struck as I envisioned sharing with my 9 year old daughter (who absolutely loves her little hamster) that Daddy lost Cupcake. To add insult to injury, the next day was my daughter's birthday and I had sent her a package with a 'dancing hamster' birthday card. How awful! She gets the birthday card celebrating her little furry friend only to then get a call from her Dad, on her birthday, informing her that he has lost her pet.
So the search began. With flashlight in hand, I covered every square inch of our house on the ultimate game of hide-and-go seek. Let's be honest, the hamster has the advantage here. There are millions of obscure places this little furry friend can hide and simply go to sleep and not make a peep. All of my hours of searching on Friday were fruitless. I was devastated. I even had our animal-rescuer friend come over and look as well....nothing. Saturday morning rolls around and I start to feel hopeless. Right about then my wife calls and tells me not to give up and keep looking. Her words gave me some fresh inspiration.
So I go ... toy by toy ...stuffed animal by stuffed animal ... all the way through my daughter's close. Nothing. I finally work my way to Joshua's closet, piece by piece, all the way to the very back. I look down and see a glimmer of hope. On the floor was a small pile of shredded paper and a neat little pile of food. I could sense that I was on the trail now. Right next to this little make-shift hamster outpost was a really huge canvas container packed full of stuffed animals. So I began taking each animal out one by one, and finally, at the very bottom of the stack was a furry little animal that was scurrying around....CUPCAKE! I have never been so happy to see a rodent in my entire life. I could have kissed this little thing.
This little episode in my life made me think about Jesus' mission that He declares in Luke 19:10. He looks at the crowds, right after Zacheus the tax-collecter becomes a follower, and declares, 'for the Son of Man came to seek and save that which was lost.' As His people, we are to have the same mission and heart for the lost. I obsessed and made it a top priority to seek and save this little hamster. How much more are we to obsess and make it a top priority to seek out the salvation of our lost friends, family and neighbors. How much more should we be praying for them, asking God to save them, inviting them to church, and looking for ways to love them and point them towards their heavenly Father.
God, may you bring someone closer towards home through us today!
in Christ,
Brian
Monday, June 17, 2013
Father's Day.
As I think of Father's Day three things quickly come to mind.
Love God, love my wife and how God has taught me how to love sacrificially through my children.
First, if I want to really learn to be a father, I have to spend time with my heavenly Father in the secret place.
Blaise Pascal writes, "All the troubles of life come upon us because we refuse to sit quietly for a while each day in our rooms."
Actually, I believe that there are some troubles that are just part of life. But to face them without my heavenly Father is unthinkable. The really great problems of life: sin and death, our heavenly Father has solved. But, I'm also trusting Him for the provision that is daily, as well as for eternity.
Second, to love my wife. I'm reminded of my own Dad when I think of this. A vivid memory from my early teen years is when all four of us boys were sitting at the table with Mom and Dad. Mom had experienced a stressful day. Perhaps the four of us boys were part of that stress. As we finished dinner, Dad described a scenario where a gunman might enter our home. He said if faced with a decision between Mom and the four boys, we'd all be gone. He said, "She was with me in the beginning and she'll be with me at the end." And she was. And I never forgot the lesson that day of loving my wife before my children.
However, loving my children has been and is a great joy. And God has used them to take me out of a self-centered existence, to which I am prone and into an others-centered life.
I so remember the first time I held each of our newborn children and how keenly aware I was of their dependence upon me for protection and provision. And it changed me. I became less concerned with how well I shot a basketball and more concerned about how I would provide a life and home for them.
As I close I have one more thought. And that is expressing our Father's love by being a father to the fatherless. I pray for all the Dads out there that they will share their lives beyond just their own physical children, and love those who have no father. For that is the heart of our Heavenly Father.
Psalms 68:5-6a
A father to the fatherless, a defender of widows,
is God in his holy dwelling.
God sets the lonely in families,
he leads out the prisoners with singing
Love,
Papa Joe
Love God, love my wife and how God has taught me how to love sacrificially through my children.
First, if I want to really learn to be a father, I have to spend time with my heavenly Father in the secret place.
Blaise Pascal writes, "All the troubles of life come upon us because we refuse to sit quietly for a while each day in our rooms."
Actually, I believe that there are some troubles that are just part of life. But to face them without my heavenly Father is unthinkable. The really great problems of life: sin and death, our heavenly Father has solved. But, I'm also trusting Him for the provision that is daily, as well as for eternity.
Second, to love my wife. I'm reminded of my own Dad when I think of this. A vivid memory from my early teen years is when all four of us boys were sitting at the table with Mom and Dad. Mom had experienced a stressful day. Perhaps the four of us boys were part of that stress. As we finished dinner, Dad described a scenario where a gunman might enter our home. He said if faced with a decision between Mom and the four boys, we'd all be gone. He said, "She was with me in the beginning and she'll be with me at the end." And she was. And I never forgot the lesson that day of loving my wife before my children.
However, loving my children has been and is a great joy. And God has used them to take me out of a self-centered existence, to which I am prone and into an others-centered life.
I so remember the first time I held each of our newborn children and how keenly aware I was of their dependence upon me for protection and provision. And it changed me. I became less concerned with how well I shot a basketball and more concerned about how I would provide a life and home for them.
As I close I have one more thought. And that is expressing our Father's love by being a father to the fatherless. I pray for all the Dads out there that they will share their lives beyond just their own physical children, and love those who have no father. For that is the heart of our Heavenly Father.
Psalms 68:5-6a
A father to the fatherless, a defender of widows,
is God in his holy dwelling.
God sets the lonely in families,
he leads out the prisoners with singing
Love,
Papa Joe
Friday, June 14, 2013
Grace.
On Wednesday, I ran home during lunch to grab a bite to eat and take care of a couple of things. As I'm wrapping up and about to head back to work, there is a knock at my door. So I open it and, uh oh, it's a door-to-door salesman. I have to admit my first instinct is to run or try and make myself disappear.
Anyway, the salesman is a young college student who is selling educational books for a summer job. He gives me the sales pitch and I pull out the 'my wife's not home and I would need to talk to her first' card (amazing how you can lean on the wife or the kids as a convenient excuse to get you out of nearly anything).
As we're wrapping up, I learn that his parents are missionaries in the Philippines but are back in the States right now as his dad had been suffering from cancer and some other medical challenges. Through our conversation, I started to see him not as an annoying door-to-door salesman but as a human being with needs, struggles, dreams, and hopes.
I asked him if I could pray for him and his dad and so I prayed for him there on the porch. I said 'Amen' and opened my eyes and tears were streaming down his face. He commented about how God works in weird ways. We exchanged good-byes and we both went on with our day.
This morning I opened my front door and a piece of notebook paper fell off of my door onto the ground. As I reached down to pick up the paper, it just had the word 'Grace' written on it. I opened up the notebook paper and inside was a $50 dollar bill with the following words written...'Pastor Brian, God shows up in weird ways. He puts us through things to grow us. Sometimes He uses people to bless us. Thank you for letting God bless me through you. Your heart shines through. Keep pointing to the Dad who loves us so much. - God bless, Josiah Fogle.'
What's cool about this story for me is that God used both of us. I felt like I didn't do much that afternoon other than listen, show some kindness and say a quick prayer for a young man. Yet, God in His mercy used those little actions to work in his life. Then God uses Josiah in a huge way to illustrate grace to me through his note and generosity right when I needed to hear that message. I am reminded that every day we have the opportunity to be a conduit of God's grace to one another. It reminded me that the salesman, check out ladies, garbage collectors, and bankers are all just human beings like me.
in Christ,
Brian
Anyway, the salesman is a young college student who is selling educational books for a summer job. He gives me the sales pitch and I pull out the 'my wife's not home and I would need to talk to her first' card (amazing how you can lean on the wife or the kids as a convenient excuse to get you out of nearly anything).
As we're wrapping up, I learn that his parents are missionaries in the Philippines but are back in the States right now as his dad had been suffering from cancer and some other medical challenges. Through our conversation, I started to see him not as an annoying door-to-door salesman but as a human being with needs, struggles, dreams, and hopes.
I asked him if I could pray for him and his dad and so I prayed for him there on the porch. I said 'Amen' and opened my eyes and tears were streaming down his face. He commented about how God works in weird ways. We exchanged good-byes and we both went on with our day.
This morning I opened my front door and a piece of notebook paper fell off of my door onto the ground. As I reached down to pick up the paper, it just had the word 'Grace' written on it. I opened up the notebook paper and inside was a $50 dollar bill with the following words written...'Pastor Brian, God shows up in weird ways. He puts us through things to grow us. Sometimes He uses people to bless us. Thank you for letting God bless me through you. Your heart shines through. Keep pointing to the Dad who loves us so much. - God bless, Josiah Fogle.'
What's cool about this story for me is that God used both of us. I felt like I didn't do much that afternoon other than listen, show some kindness and say a quick prayer for a young man. Yet, God in His mercy used those little actions to work in his life. Then God uses Josiah in a huge way to illustrate grace to me through his note and generosity right when I needed to hear that message. I am reminded that every day we have the opportunity to be a conduit of God's grace to one another. It reminded me that the salesman, check out ladies, garbage collectors, and bankers are all just human beings like me.
in Christ,
Brian
Thursday, June 13, 2013
Restoring Relationships: Talk to God.
(Every day through the app you version, I read several devotionals. My favorite is the daily devotion by Rick Warren. Here's a sample. If you would like more devotionals by Rick Warren, go to you version and sign-up for a daily devotional that will be sent directly to your email)
The first biblical step toward restoring a relationship is to talk to God before talking to the person.
If you'll pray about the conflict first, instead of gossiping to a friend, you'll often discover that either God changes your heart or he changes the other person without your help.
All your relationships would go smoother if you would just pray more about them. As David did with his Psalms, use prayer to ventilate vertically. Tell God your frustrations. Cry out to him. He's never surprised or upset by your anger, hurt, insecurity, or any other emotions. So tell him exactly how you feel.
Most conflict is rooted in unmet needs and many of these needs can only be met by God. When you expect anyone - a friend, spouse, another pastor, or family member - to meet a need that only God can fulfill, you are setting yourself up for disappointment and bitterness. No one can meet all of your needs except God.
The apostle James noted that many of our conflicts are caused by prayerlessness: "What causes fights and quarrels among you? You want something but don't get it. You do not have, because you do not ask God." (James 4:1-2 NIV)
Instead of looking to God, we look to others to make us happy and then get angry when they fail us. God says, "Why don't you come to me first?"
James 4:1-2
James 4:1-2 MSG
1-2 Where do you think all these appalling wars and quarrels come from? Do you think they just happen? Think again. They come about because you want your own way, and fight for it deep inside yourselves. You lust for what you don't have and are willing to kill to get it. You want what isn't yours and will risk violence to get your hands on it.
Blessings
Joe
The first biblical step toward restoring a relationship is to talk to God before talking to the person.
If you'll pray about the conflict first, instead of gossiping to a friend, you'll often discover that either God changes your heart or he changes the other person without your help.
All your relationships would go smoother if you would just pray more about them. As David did with his Psalms, use prayer to ventilate vertically. Tell God your frustrations. Cry out to him. He's never surprised or upset by your anger, hurt, insecurity, or any other emotions. So tell him exactly how you feel.
Most conflict is rooted in unmet needs and many of these needs can only be met by God. When you expect anyone - a friend, spouse, another pastor, or family member - to meet a need that only God can fulfill, you are setting yourself up for disappointment and bitterness. No one can meet all of your needs except God.
The apostle James noted that many of our conflicts are caused by prayerlessness: "What causes fights and quarrels among you? You want something but don't get it. You do not have, because you do not ask God." (James 4:1-2 NIV)
Instead of looking to God, we look to others to make us happy and then get angry when they fail us. God says, "Why don't you come to me first?"
James 4:1-2
James 4:1-2 MSG
1-2 Where do you think all these appalling wars and quarrels come from? Do you think they just happen? Think again. They come about because you want your own way, and fight for it deep inside yourselves. You lust for what you don't have and are willing to kill to get it. You want what isn't yours and will risk violence to get your hands on it.
Blessings
Joe
Wednesday, June 12, 2013
"Lord I Need You."
On Sunday we sang a great new song called "Lord I Need You." The chorus is taken from an old hymn. I love the new verses that Matt Maher and company came up with. Today, I want to talk just about the second verse.
It says,"Where sin runs deep Your grace is more."
A wonderful quote from Romans 5:20 relates to this:
"The Law came in so that the transgression would increase; but where sin increased, grace abounded all the more,"
Grace, the unmerited favor of God.
Then we sing,"Where grace is found is where You are"
In God's grace, we experience His loving acceptance so that we can know Him and enjoy His presence.
Finally we sing, "And where You are, Lord, I am free, Holiness is Christ in me"
There is great freedom in knowing that our sins are forgiven, and the merits of Christ reside in our hearts.
Romans 3:22
Even the righteousness of God through faith in Jesus Christ for all those who believe;
Wow. We admit our need for God and He gives us His grace, His righteousness, and his freedom.
Lord, I Need You,
Joe
Here are all the lyrics and a YouTube link to "Lord I Need You"
http://youtu.be/N-KM_zpwfr4
Lord, I come, I confess
Bowing here I find my rest
Without You I fall apart
You're the One that guides my heart
Lord, I need You, oh, I need You
Every hour I need You
My one defense, my righteousness
Oh God, how I need You
Where sin runs deep Your grace is more
Where grace is found is where You are
And where You are, Lord, I am free
Holiness is Christ in me
Lord, I need You, oh, I need You
Every hour I need You
My one defense, my righteousness
Oh God, how I need You
Teach my song to rise to You
When temptation comes my way
And when I cannot stand I'll fall on You
Jesus, You're my hope and stay
Lord, I need You, oh, I need You
Every hour I need You
My one defense, my righteousness
Oh God, how I need You
You're my one defense, my righteousness
Oh God, how I need You
My one defense, my righteousness
Oh God, how I need You
It says,"Where sin runs deep Your grace is more."
A wonderful quote from Romans 5:20 relates to this:
"The Law came in so that the transgression would increase; but where sin increased, grace abounded all the more,"
Grace, the unmerited favor of God.
Then we sing,"Where grace is found is where You are"
In God's grace, we experience His loving acceptance so that we can know Him and enjoy His presence.
Finally we sing, "And where You are, Lord, I am free, Holiness is Christ in me"
There is great freedom in knowing that our sins are forgiven, and the merits of Christ reside in our hearts.
Romans 3:22
Even the righteousness of God through faith in Jesus Christ for all those who believe;
Wow. We admit our need for God and He gives us His grace, His righteousness, and his freedom.
Lord, I Need You,
Joe
Here are all the lyrics and a YouTube link to "Lord I Need You"
http://youtu.be/N-KM_zpwfr4
Lord, I come, I confess
Bowing here I find my rest
Without You I fall apart
You're the One that guides my heart
Lord, I need You, oh, I need You
Every hour I need You
My one defense, my righteousness
Oh God, how I need You
Where sin runs deep Your grace is more
Where grace is found is where You are
And where You are, Lord, I am free
Holiness is Christ in me
Lord, I need You, oh, I need You
Every hour I need You
My one defense, my righteousness
Oh God, how I need You
Teach my song to rise to You
When temptation comes my way
And when I cannot stand I'll fall on You
Jesus, You're my hope and stay
Lord, I need You, oh, I need You
Every hour I need You
My one defense, my righteousness
Oh God, how I need You
You're my one defense, my righteousness
Oh God, how I need You
My one defense, my righteousness
Oh God, how I need You
Tuesday, June 11, 2013
Jesus On Display.
I was reading a book by a Small Groups Pastor, Brad House, on the topic of community. I love the following quote he makes:
‘Basically, the witness of community is more powerful than an individual witness. Loving your neighbors is much easier if you never have to deal with them. Living in light of the gospel is much harder in community where people sin against you. Your neighbors know this and that is why talk is cheap. Experiencing a people who confess their sins against one another, repent, and forgive is foreign to the world. Communities that live in this way, transformed by the gospel, will not only have a good reputation among their neighbors, but also they will point them to hope in Jesus. This is a community that has joined the mission of God.’
In light of Steve's current message series on conflict resolution, I thought this quote was rather appropriate. One of the universal connection points for us as mankind is that we have messed up in our relationships with others more times than we can count. We have let down friends, verbally exploded on our spouse, broke a promise to our child, failed a co-worker, and offended our neighbor.
God is a relational and trinitarian God, existing as the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit. Genesis says that He created us male and female in His image. We reflect God to the world through relationships with one another. When sin entered the world, it scarred our relationships and all of sin pretty much boils down to brokeness in our relationship with God (first 4 commandments) and brokenness in our relationship with one another (last 6 commandments).
The most convincing proof of the gospel (God reconciling the world to Himself through the death, burial and resurrection of Jesus Christ), is transformed relationships. So as we learn to forgive as Jesus forgave us and love as Jesus loves us we are powerfully putting God on display in our driveways, cubicles, classrooms and kitchens. So conflict resolution is truly the heart of the gospel and central to our mission as Christians. Let's live it out today and let the world see Jesus!
in Christ,
Brian
‘Basically, the witness of community is more powerful than an individual witness. Loving your neighbors is much easier if you never have to deal with them. Living in light of the gospel is much harder in community where people sin against you. Your neighbors know this and that is why talk is cheap. Experiencing a people who confess their sins against one another, repent, and forgive is foreign to the world. Communities that live in this way, transformed by the gospel, will not only have a good reputation among their neighbors, but also they will point them to hope in Jesus. This is a community that has joined the mission of God.’
In light of Steve's current message series on conflict resolution, I thought this quote was rather appropriate. One of the universal connection points for us as mankind is that we have messed up in our relationships with others more times than we can count. We have let down friends, verbally exploded on our spouse, broke a promise to our child, failed a co-worker, and offended our neighbor.
God is a relational and trinitarian God, existing as the Father, the Son and the Holy Spirit. Genesis says that He created us male and female in His image. We reflect God to the world through relationships with one another. When sin entered the world, it scarred our relationships and all of sin pretty much boils down to brokeness in our relationship with God (first 4 commandments) and brokenness in our relationship with one another (last 6 commandments).
The most convincing proof of the gospel (God reconciling the world to Himself through the death, burial and resurrection of Jesus Christ), is transformed relationships. So as we learn to forgive as Jesus forgave us and love as Jesus loves us we are powerfully putting God on display in our driveways, cubicles, classrooms and kitchens. So conflict resolution is truly the heart of the gospel and central to our mission as Christians. Let's live it out today and let the world see Jesus!
in Christ,
Brian
Monday, June 10, 2013
Good News Monday!
Awesome worship at StoneBridge yesterday!!! Great to have the young men and women from Cornerstone along with the Pine Cove Camp Counselors here for Base Camp. Awesome to stop singing on the microphone and hear the voices of StoneBridgers fill the room. The best moment of the day!!!!
Louie Giglio writes, "A worshiping church never gets over the gospel."
May we at StoneBridge never lose our love and wonder of the gospel. This one verse alone from 2 Cor. 5:19 is enough for me to celebrate the gospel. Paul writes, "God was in Christ, reconciling the world to himself, not counting men’s trespasses against them."
There it is!!!!! God loves me and through Christ I am accepted by Him and adopted into His family. That is a Good News Monday.
Here are a few additional verses to get you through at least Thursday.
Have a Good News Week!!!!
Joe
(Tuesday)
But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: while we were still sinners, Christ died for us (Rom. 5:8)
(Wednesday)
Christ died for our sins, according to the Scriptures … he was buried. . . . The third day he rose again from the dead, according to the Scriptures . . . and he appeared (1 Cor. 15:3-6).
Thursday
God made him who knew no sin to be sin for us, that we might become the righteousness of God in him (2 Cor. 5:21)
Louie Giglio writes, "A worshiping church never gets over the gospel."
May we at StoneBridge never lose our love and wonder of the gospel. This one verse alone from 2 Cor. 5:19 is enough for me to celebrate the gospel. Paul writes, "God was in Christ, reconciling the world to himself, not counting men’s trespasses against them."
There it is!!!!! God loves me and through Christ I am accepted by Him and adopted into His family. That is a Good News Monday.
Here are a few additional verses to get you through at least Thursday.
Have a Good News Week!!!!
Joe
(Tuesday)
But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: while we were still sinners, Christ died for us (Rom. 5:8)
(Wednesday)
Christ died for our sins, according to the Scriptures … he was buried. . . . The third day he rose again from the dead, according to the Scriptures . . . and he appeared (1 Cor. 15:3-6).
Thursday
God made him who knew no sin to be sin for us, that we might become the righteousness of God in him (2 Cor. 5:21)
Friday, June 7, 2013
Today.
'This is the day that the Lord has made. We will rejoice and be glad in it.' - Psalm 118:24. What a great reminder this well-known passage gives us. Truly this is a verse that should be stated and claimed each and every morning we wake up.
The present is a 'present' from God. Too often we allow the past and the future to rob us of the beauty of the present moment. The past seems to rob us in a couple of different ways. Often we try and re-create or worship the 'good old days' and it leaves us ungrateful and bitter about today. Sometimes we relive regrets and painful scenes from our past and we agonize in guilt and sorrow about 'what might have been.'
But let's remember that the past has passed. God has forgiven us in Christ, and it is done. The good old days were not as good as we have immortalized them in our mind and God has greater things for us today.
The future most often robs us in the form of worry. Our imaginations run wild with 'what if' scenarios about world events, our livelihood, possible failures, etc. Yet Jesus strictly warned us to focus our thoughts on today for 'today has enough worries of its own.' So much of what we worry about in the future never comes to fruition at all. There are people, provisions, and character-building moments that God wants to take us through each day that will prepare us for the future He has for us.
So, today is a new day. It is a gift from God to you and me. Let's receive it. Let's embrace it. Let's live in this moment today!
in Christ,
Brian
The present is a 'present' from God. Too often we allow the past and the future to rob us of the beauty of the present moment. The past seems to rob us in a couple of different ways. Often we try and re-create or worship the 'good old days' and it leaves us ungrateful and bitter about today. Sometimes we relive regrets and painful scenes from our past and we agonize in guilt and sorrow about 'what might have been.'
But let's remember that the past has passed. God has forgiven us in Christ, and it is done. The good old days were not as good as we have immortalized them in our mind and God has greater things for us today.
The future most often robs us in the form of worry. Our imaginations run wild with 'what if' scenarios about world events, our livelihood, possible failures, etc. Yet Jesus strictly warned us to focus our thoughts on today for 'today has enough worries of its own.' So much of what we worry about in the future never comes to fruition at all. There are people, provisions, and character-building moments that God wants to take us through each day that will prepare us for the future He has for us.
So, today is a new day. It is a gift from God to you and me. Let's receive it. Let's embrace it. Let's live in this moment today!
in Christ,
Brian
Thursday, June 6, 2013
Zambia
The day has finally come. As of 8:40 this evening my mother and I will be on a plane en route to Zambia to participate in CampLife for a week. To be honest I am a kaleidoscope of emotions. I'm nervous about making sure I have everything I need and somehow filling up three 30lbs bags. Excited to realize that this is really happening. Occassionally terrified that this is really happening. As well as embracing an attitude of "Bring it on!".
I'm excitedly anticipating what God is going to teach me and use me to achieve. I came to realize that as I go on this mission that God will use me as I am, myself, not me assuming an attitude or disposition that isn't truly my own. And, you have permission to laugh at this, I actually got that from a fortune cookie after my dinner of chinese food the other night. My fortune read, "Be a first rate version of yourself, not a second rate version of someone else."
That's a powerful cookie. I still have the fortune in my purse.
And so I will leave you with those same words.
God will use you. You! As you are.
As I am,
Hailey
I'm excitedly anticipating what God is going to teach me and use me to achieve. I came to realize that as I go on this mission that God will use me as I am, myself, not me assuming an attitude or disposition that isn't truly my own. And, you have permission to laugh at this, I actually got that from a fortune cookie after my dinner of chinese food the other night. My fortune read, "Be a first rate version of yourself, not a second rate version of someone else."
That's a powerful cookie. I still have the fortune in my purse.
And so I will leave you with those same words.
God will use you. You! As you are.
As I am,
Hailey
Wednesday, June 5, 2013
Freedom.
I've always admired people who were comfortable in their own skin. Who just seemed relaxed, unhurried, not trying to overly impress.
I'm not sure all the reasons why, maybe from school, trying to get a good grade, or being third in the birth order out of four, (you know the one no one notices) but, I found myself too often striving to meet the expectations of others.
I think of Jesus' words, "You will know the Truth and the truth will set you free."
I believe only God's word can free us from guilt,
pressure to please,
anxiety, worry, resentment,
all the things that keep us from living a joyful, purposed filled life.
It is God word that teaches us the truth about who we are and how we're to live. A life built on God's word helps us avoid many of the heartaches that we "feel" we are captive to.
So let's find freedom in and through in God's word.
John 6:68
Simon Peter answered him, “Lord, to whom shall we go? You have the words of eternal life.
Words of life.
Joe
I'm not sure all the reasons why, maybe from school, trying to get a good grade, or being third in the birth order out of four, (you know the one no one notices) but, I found myself too often striving to meet the expectations of others.
I think of Jesus' words, "You will know the Truth and the truth will set you free."
I believe only God's word can free us from guilt,
pressure to please,
anxiety, worry, resentment,
all the things that keep us from living a joyful, purposed filled life.
It is God word that teaches us the truth about who we are and how we're to live. A life built on God's word helps us avoid many of the heartaches that we "feel" we are captive to.
So let's find freedom in and through in God's word.
John 6:68
Simon Peter answered him, “Lord, to whom shall we go? You have the words of eternal life.
Words of life.
Joe
Tuesday, June 4, 2013
Redeeming those Crazy Moments.
I am writing you today from Orlando, Florida as our family took the plunge and came over here to Disney World for a vacation. Vacations sometimes scare me because they involve saving up money, planning, and alot of times unrealistic expectations. Of course Disney is the worst about creating these expectations with promises like 'where dreams come true.'
Sunday morning rolled around and after a late night hanging out with some friends, we had to wake up and make an 8:30 breakfast over in Animal Kingdom. We grabbed the kids and started wunning (combo of walking and running) leaving our 7 and 8 year old far behind as they lolly-gagged at a leisurely pace. They soon realized Mom and Dad were a full football field ahead of them, so they panicked and caught up with us.
We made it to the bus stop only to wait for another 20 minutes or so. By this time we had like 15 minutes to make our reservation. As the bus arrives we talk to the driver only to discover that it takes 20-25 minutes to get to our destination. At this point I am panicking at the thought of losing our money and losing out on a fantastic breakfast (I really like a good breakfast). So I decide to sprint across the resort all the way back to our car, fling myself in the driver seat and whirl around to pick up the family.
At this point I magically turn into a frazzled Clark Grizwald, who is watching his vacation crumble apart as he helplessly tries to hold it together. I am driving like a maniac as my wife is constantly telling me to slow down and take a deep breath and relax. Not knowing where I am going, my wife quickly activates Siri on the iPhone only to discover that my daughter's friend had changed the language setting to Japanese. Great!!! She then tries to plug in the address frantically but at this point I have apparently turned the wrong way and have turned a short drive into like an almost 20 minute drive. We finally make it to the park only to be stuck in bumper to bumper traffic as a sea of humanity is descending upon the same destination.
I finally get parked, we jump out of the car, weave in and out people like crazed lunatics and roll up to our breakfast an hour past our reservation time. Amazingly, they still let us in and we let out a sigh of exhaustion and enjoy our breakfast. Earlier that morning I had prayed and asked God to give me an opportunity to be a witness for Him. God gave us that opportunity with our waiter, JW. After the meal, I asked him if there was anything we could pray for him about. He thought for a moment and then opened up to us and shared that his mom had just come down with Dimentia and it was also taking a toll on his Dad as the care giver. As he shared more, he quickly left the table because he was getting emotional. As we were leaving he found me again, shook my hand and thanked me for caring.
Asking people that question is a very simple thing to do, but I am amazed how God opens doors through it. I also thought that if we would not have been an hour late than we probably would have not been at the table and had not met JW. When we walk with God, He can take our mornings like that and redeem them for His purposes. I am once again reminded of the truth in Romans 8:28 that says, ' 28 And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them.' So no matter what your day is like today, keep your eyes out for God's activity, and be ready to join Him.
in Christ,
Brian
Sunday morning rolled around and after a late night hanging out with some friends, we had to wake up and make an 8:30 breakfast over in Animal Kingdom. We grabbed the kids and started wunning (combo of walking and running) leaving our 7 and 8 year old far behind as they lolly-gagged at a leisurely pace. They soon realized Mom and Dad were a full football field ahead of them, so they panicked and caught up with us.
We made it to the bus stop only to wait for another 20 minutes or so. By this time we had like 15 minutes to make our reservation. As the bus arrives we talk to the driver only to discover that it takes 20-25 minutes to get to our destination. At this point I am panicking at the thought of losing our money and losing out on a fantastic breakfast (I really like a good breakfast). So I decide to sprint across the resort all the way back to our car, fling myself in the driver seat and whirl around to pick up the family.
At this point I magically turn into a frazzled Clark Grizwald, who is watching his vacation crumble apart as he helplessly tries to hold it together. I am driving like a maniac as my wife is constantly telling me to slow down and take a deep breath and relax. Not knowing where I am going, my wife quickly activates Siri on the iPhone only to discover that my daughter's friend had changed the language setting to Japanese. Great!!! She then tries to plug in the address frantically but at this point I have apparently turned the wrong way and have turned a short drive into like an almost 20 minute drive. We finally make it to the park only to be stuck in bumper to bumper traffic as a sea of humanity is descending upon the same destination.
I finally get parked, we jump out of the car, weave in and out people like crazed lunatics and roll up to our breakfast an hour past our reservation time. Amazingly, they still let us in and we let out a sigh of exhaustion and enjoy our breakfast. Earlier that morning I had prayed and asked God to give me an opportunity to be a witness for Him. God gave us that opportunity with our waiter, JW. After the meal, I asked him if there was anything we could pray for him about. He thought for a moment and then opened up to us and shared that his mom had just come down with Dimentia and it was also taking a toll on his Dad as the care giver. As he shared more, he quickly left the table because he was getting emotional. As we were leaving he found me again, shook my hand and thanked me for caring.
Asking people that question is a very simple thing to do, but I am amazed how God opens doors through it. I also thought that if we would not have been an hour late than we probably would have not been at the table and had not met JW. When we walk with God, He can take our mornings like that and redeem them for His purposes. I am once again reminded of the truth in Romans 8:28 that says, ' 28 And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them.' So no matter what your day is like today, keep your eyes out for God's activity, and be ready to join Him.
in Christ,
Brian
Monday, June 3, 2013
Joshua's Journey.
For 69 days I've been following Joshua's journey on the French's daily blog.
Joshua Derek French was born three months early to Derek and Stephanie French. Stephanie serves full time at StoneBridge in youth ministry, her husband volunteers in many areas, but is best known for his mentoring and ministry through the disc golf course. They have a beautiful daughter Maddy, who possesses the most joyful smile you've ever seen. This family is much beloved at StoneBridge.
Joshua was born on March 26 and weighed only 2 lb 6 oz and was 14.75 inches long.
As you might imagine, there were many prayer requests across the last three months. But the one recurring prayer that touched me deeply on nearly every blog was "Lord help us to shine your light to those around us as we go through this." Through the struggles, hurt, fears, tears, and exhaustion help us to be a light for your glory.
Wow!!! What an inspiration.
Today Joshua weighs, 5 lbs 6 oz and is pushing 18 inches long.
So this Sunday Night, June 2 on Day 69, they packed up Joshua and finally brought him home. Their prayer request on their blog was still the same, "Lord let us continue to be a light for your glory."
Derek, Stephanie, all of us rejoice with you. Your prayers have been answered, for we have seen His light in you and give Him glory.
Matthew 5:16
16 In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.
Blessed by God's love so beautifully demonstrated in this young family.
Joe
Joshua Derek French was born three months early to Derek and Stephanie French. Stephanie serves full time at StoneBridge in youth ministry, her husband volunteers in many areas, but is best known for his mentoring and ministry through the disc golf course. They have a beautiful daughter Maddy, who possesses the most joyful smile you've ever seen. This family is much beloved at StoneBridge.
Joshua was born on March 26 and weighed only 2 lb 6 oz and was 14.75 inches long.
As you might imagine, there were many prayer requests across the last three months. But the one recurring prayer that touched me deeply on nearly every blog was "Lord help us to shine your light to those around us as we go through this." Through the struggles, hurt, fears, tears, and exhaustion help us to be a light for your glory.
Wow!!! What an inspiration.
Today Joshua weighs, 5 lbs 6 oz and is pushing 18 inches long.
So this Sunday Night, June 2 on Day 69, they packed up Joshua and finally brought him home. Their prayer request on their blog was still the same, "Lord let us continue to be a light for your glory."
Derek, Stephanie, all of us rejoice with you. Your prayers have been answered, for we have seen His light in you and give Him glory.
Matthew 5:16
16 In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.
Blessed by God's love so beautifully demonstrated in this young family.
Joe
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